Film

In the Mood for Love

Name: In the Mood for Love
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 2000
Cast: Maggie Cheung, Tony Leung Chiu-wai, Siu Ping-Lam, Rebecca Pan, Kelly Lai Chen

Wong Kar-wai's spellbinding study of restraint: two neighbours, each quietly abandoned by an unfaithful spouse, drift into an intimacy they never quite let become an affair in 1962 Hong Kong. Cheongsams, cigarette smoke, rain-slicked alleys, Nat King Cole on repeat — every frame aches with longing spoken in glances rather than words. Slow, gorgeous, devastating for anyone patient enough to let it work on them.

TMDb rating

8.1

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