Film

Shoot the Moon

Name: Shoot the Moon
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 1982
Cast: Albert Finney, Diane Keaton, Karen Allen, Peter Weller, Dana Hill

A searing portrait of a marriage's collapse and its aftermath. Albert Finney and Diane Keaton navigate infidelity, resentment, and the wreckage left behind with unflinching performances. Polanski's film treats divorce not as melodrama but as a slow-motion demolition of shared life, watched through the eyes of their caught children. For adults who've lived through or feared this.

TMDb rating

3.2

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