Film

Past Lives

Name: Past Lives
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 2023
Cast: Greta Lee, Teo Yoo, John Magaro, Moon Seung-ah, Leem Seung-min

Past Lives is a quiet, aching drama about In-Yun, immigration, and the person you might have become. Korean-American writer-director Celine Song's debut follows two childhood friends across decades and continents, converging on one hushed New York weekend. It's slow, tender, and deliberately unresolved — for people who want their romance implied rather than declared, more sigh than swoon.

TMDb rating

7.7

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