Film

A Coffee in Berlin

Name: A Coffee in Berlin
Genre: Drama, Comedy
Released: 2012
Cast: Tom Schilling, Marc Hosemann, Friederike Kempter, Justus von Dohnányi, Katharina Schüttler

Coming-of-age

A twenty-something drifter observes Berlin from the margins in this quietly funny, gently melancholic German film. It's a day in the life of someone not quite living—encounters accumulate without arriving anywhere grand. A lovely, unhurried watch about how adulthood creeps up on you when you're looking the other way.

TMDb rating

3.6

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