Film

You Can Count on Me

Name: You Can Count on Me
Genre: Drama
Released: 2000
Cast: Laura Linney, Mark Ruffalo, Matthew Broderick, Jon Tenney, Rory Culkin

Kenneth Lonergan's quietly devastating debut watches a small-town single mother and her drifting younger brother try, and often fail, to be good to each other. Nothing explodes; nobody gets neatly redeemed. It's a patient, funny, exactingly written film about how the people we love stay exactly themselves — for better and worse. Best for viewers who prize character over plot.

TMDb rating

6.9

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