Film

This Is Where I Leave You

Name: This Is Where I Leave You
Genre: Drama, Comedy
Released: 2014
Cast: Jason Bateman, Tina Fey, Jane Fonda, Adam Driver, Rose Byrne

This Is Where I Leave You gathers four squabbling adult siblings back under one roof after their father's death, forced into a week of shiva by his dying wish and their mother's unnerving candour. It's an ensemble dramedy in the mid-2000s indie mould — old resentments, new confessions, everyone back in their childhood bedroom. Funnier than it is wise, but a comfortable, star-stuffed watch for anyone who still flinches at family holidays.

TMDb rating

6.7

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