Film

Our Idiot Brother

Name: Our Idiot Brother
Genre: Comedy, Drama
Released: 2011
Cast: Paul Rudd, Elizabeth Banks, Zooey Deschanel, Emily Mortimer, Steve Coogan

Comedy

A genial comedy about a naïve man released from prison who moves in with his three sisters and gently upends their carefully constructed lives. It's warm and forgiving rather than mean, with excellent ensemble chemistry and a genuine affection for its characters' messiness. For anyone who loves family stories that find humour in recognisable dysfunction.

TMDb rating

3.1

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