Film

Hysterical Blindness

Name: Hysterical Blindness
Genre: Drama, TV Movie
Released: 2002
Cast: Uma Thurman, Gena Rowlands, Juliette Lewis, Justin Chambers, Ben Gazzara

Drama

Hysterical Blindness is a tender, unglamorous portrait of two working-class women in 1980s New Jersey navigating loneliness, desire, and the gap between their dreams and reality. Uma Thurman and Juliette Lewis anchor this TV movie with surprising depth, finding humor and heartbreak in the ordinary disappointments of adult life. It's quietly observant and genuinely moving.

TMDb rating

3.1

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