Film

Fried Green Tomatoes

A big, warm, secretly sharp Southern weepie: an unhappy housewife (Kathy Bates) is talked back to life by an old woman's (Jessica Tandy) stories of a fierce tomboy, a gentle bride, and the café they ran through hard times in 1920s Alabama. It's funnier than its reputation suggests, and its central love story is braver than most films of its era let it be. Bring tissues and an appetite.

TMDb rating7.7

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But No cosy café, no old-lady narrator softening the blow — this one commits fully to rage and consequence.

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The Notebook2004

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4 Little Girls1997

Same Alabama landscape and era of racial terror that Fried Green Tomatoes fictionalises around Big George's story — this is the documentary register of that same history, unflinching where the film looks away.

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