Film

Moonlight and Valentino

Name: Moonlight and Valentino
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Romance
Released: 1995
Cast: Elizabeth Perkins, Gwyneth Paltrow, Kathleen Turner, Whoopi Goldberg, Jon Bon Jovi

Drama

A 1995 ensemble comedy-drama about grief, female friendship, and unexpected romance. A widow navigates loss with support from her mother, best friend, and a housepainter who arrives at exactly the right moment. Warm, funny, and genuinely moving—the kind of film that trusts you to hold contradictions: mourning and joy, mess and grace, all at once.

TMDb rating

2.8

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