Film

My Best Friend's Wedding

Name: My Best Friend's Wedding
Genre: Comedy, Romance
Released: 1997
Cast: Julia Roberts, Dermot Mulroney, Cameron Diaz, Rupert Everett, Philip Bosco

Julia Roberts as the fast-talking best friend who realizes, four days before the wedding, that she wants the groom for herself. It's a romcom that dares to make its heroine genuinely unlikable and its plot genuinely uncertain about who deserves to win. Funny, a little mean, and famous for not giving you the ending you expect.

TMDb rating

6.6

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