Film

The Flamingo Kid

Name: The Flamingo Kid
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Romance
Released: 1984
Cast: Matt Dillon, Héctor Elizondo, Molly McCarthy, Martha Gehman, Richard Crenna

Coming-of-age

A 1984 coming-of-age comedy about a restless Brooklyn teenager who lands a summer job at an exclusive beach club and gets seduced by its glamour, fast talk, and beautiful women. Matt Dillon is caught between his working-class father and a charismatic con man mentor. It's warm and funny without being cynical, genuinely interested in how we choose who to become.

TMDb rating

3.0

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