Film

My Big Fat Greek Wedding

Name: My Big Fat Greek Wedding
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Romance
Released: 2002
Cast: Nia Vardalos, John Corbett, Lainie Kazan, Michael Constantine, Andrea Martin

A scrappy indie sleeper that became a word-of-mouth phenomenon, this is Nia Vardalos's love letter to her own loud, opinionated Greek family, built around one plain joke: love is easy, in-laws are not. It's warm, broad, cheerfully corny, and best watched with people you'd bring home to meet your own relatives.

TMDb rating

6.5

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