Film

Meet the Parents

Name: Meet the Parents
Genre: Comedy, Romance
Released: 2000
Cast: Ben Stiller, Robert De Niro, Teri Polo, Blythe Danner, Nicole DeHuff

A gentle, anxious boyfriend tries to win over his girlfriend's terrifying ex-CIA father over one disastrous weekend, and every attempt to impress him detonates spectacularly. It's a farce built on dread rather than pure slapstick — you watch through your fingers as much as you laugh. Stiller's flop-sweat panic and De Niro's stone-faced menace make an unbeatable double act. Perfect for anyone who has ever dreaded a first family dinner.

TMDb rating

6.7

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