Film

Along Came Polly

Name: Along Came Polly
Genre: Comedy, Romance
Released: 2004
Cast: Ben Stiller, Jennifer Aniston, Philip Seymour Hoffman, Debra Messing, Alec Baldwin

Romantic comedy
Light-hearted

A romantic comedy about a risk-averse insurance actuary whose carefully ordered life implodes when he falls for a free-spirited, impulsive woman. It's a breezy, character-driven film that mines comedy from the collision of opposites—less concerned with plot mechanics than with watching two people genuinely like each other figure things out. For anyone who enjoys watching smart, funny people be awkward together.

TMDb rating

3.0

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you enjoy the squirm of a meticulous man wrecked by spontaneity, with Ben Stiller's anxious, prickly timing carrying the awkward set-pieces and Philip Seymour Hoffman stealing scenes as a scruffy poker pro.

Skip it if you want a sharp, tightly plotted romcom, since it leans on broad physical gags and a loose, meandering middle that can feel padded even at ninety minutes.

What it asks of you: Ninety minutes of light, easygoing company; it rambles happily rather than rushing, and asks you to tolerate silliness in exchange for warmth.

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