Film

Punch-Drunk Love

Name: Punch-Drunk Love
Genre: Romance, Drama, Comedy
Released: 2002
Cast: Adam Sandler, Emily Watson, Philip Seymour Hoffman, Luis Guzmán, Mary Lynn Rajskub

Adam Sandler plays Barry Egan, a man barely holding himself together — nine phones, blue suits, a harmonium found on a curb — until a scam, a strange woman, and his own buried rage all collide. Paul Thomas Anderson turns a rom-com into something jittery, tender and faintly unhinged, shot like an anxiety attack set to a xylophone. For anyone who wants romance with teeth.

TMDb rating

7.1

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