Film

The Big Sick

Name: The Big Sick
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Romance
Released: 2017
Cast: Kumail Nanjiani, Zoe Kazan, Holly Hunter, Ray Romano, Anupam Kher

A romantic comedy that swerves into a hospital drama without ever losing its sense of humour, this is Kumail Nanjiani and Emily V. Gordon's own courtship rewritten for the screen. It's funny the way real conversations are funny — awkward, specific, a little mean — and it earns its tears instead of demanding them. Good for anyone who wants a love story with actual family friction in it.

TMDb rating

7.3

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