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Crazy, Stupid, Love.

A glossy ensemble romcom that keeps handing you one more thread to pull: a marriage collapsing, a bar-room seduction guru, a teenage crush, a babysitter with a secret. It's slicker and funnier than it has any right to be, building toward a party-scene reveal that actually earns its gasp. For anyone who likes their heartbreak served with a wink and a killer cast.

TMDb rating3.6

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you like comedies that are tender about failure and love, where the laughs come from sincere, slightly embarrassing characters and several romances tangled into one warm story.

Skip it if you find sentimental romcom machinery hard to stomach, since the film leans on tidy coincidences and a glossy, Hollywood polish that some will find cloying.

What it asks of you: At just under two hours, it switches between farce and heartache and braids several love stories, so it rewards patience through its clumsier stretches.

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