Film

Anyone but You

Name: Anyone but You
Genre: Romance, Comedy
Released: 2023
Cast: Sydney Sweeney, Glen Powell, Mia Artemis, Nat Buchanan, GaTa

Romantic comedy
Light-hearted

A glossy romantic comedy about two people who hit it off spectacularly, then crash just as hard, before pretending to be a couple at a wedding in Australia. It's bright, tropically photographed, energetically performed, and built for watching with someone you like. Perfect if you want charm and banter without anything that asks you to think.

TMDb rating

3.4

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