Film

Newness

Name: Newness
Genre: Romance, Drama
Released: 2017
Cast: Nicholas Hoult, Laia Costa, Danny Huston, Courtney Eaton, Matthew Gray Gubler

A 2017 romance that unflinches from modern dating's paradoxes: infinite choice breeds anxiety, apps promise connection but deliver surfaces, and two people genuinely trying still don't know how to be honest. Shot with unfussy clarity in contemporary LA. For anyone who's felt the strange loneliness of swiping, or watched someone they cared about disappear into their phone.

TMDb rating

3.1

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you like romances that poke at modern dating apps with an uneasy, observational eye and don't rush to tidy up the messy feelings underneath.

Skip it if its takes on swipe culture are more knowing than fresh, so if you've had your fill of apps-and-LA stories, expect familiar ground.

What it asks of you: Patience with talky, unhurried scenes and a willingness to sit with discomfort; at 112 minutes it moves at a conversational pace, lingering more than it rushes.

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