Film

The Spectacular Now

A teenage romance that refuses the usual script. Sutter is charismatic and hollow; Aimee is sweet but real. What makes it special is the film's refusal to pretend either of them has the answers, or that love solves what's actually broken. It's funny and tender and occasionally devastating.

TMDb rating3.3

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you love quiet, character-led romances where the charm comes from awkward honesty and small moments rather than plot, and you don't mind a lead who is charming and also frustrating.

Skip it if you want a brisk story with clear stakes and a steady escalation; much of the running time is spent loitering in conversations, parties and half-finished decisions.

What it asks of you: Under ninety-six minutes, it moves at a conversational pace and stays close to its characters, so it asks for patience with silences and a willingness to sit with unresolved feelings.

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