Film

Dare

Name: Dare
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 2009
Cast: Emmy Rossum, Zach Gilford, Ashley Springer, Ana Gasteyer, Rooney Mara

Coming-of-age

A low-key romantic drama about a sheltered college student who accepts a dare to break free, drawing her into the orbit of a charismatic troublemaker. Emmy Rossum carries a film that's genuinely interested in the texture of female friendship, uncertainty, and the messy way attraction scrambles good intentions. Intimate and oddly tender where you'd expect drama.

TMDb rating

2.8

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