Film

Manchester by the Sea

Name: Manchester by the Sea
Genre: Drama
Released: 2016
Cast: Casey Affleck, Lucas Hedges, Michelle Williams, Kyle Chandler, C.J. Wilson

Kenneth Lonergan's study of a man who has already survived the worst thing that could happen to him, dragged back to the town and family he fled. It moves at the pace of real grief — long silences, sudden bursts of temper, unexpected laughs — and refuses to manipulate you toward catharsis. Casey Affleck is devastating. For anyone patient with sadness that doesn't resolve.

TMDb rating

7.5

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