Film

Love After Love

Name: Love After Love
Genre: Drama
Released: 2018
Cast: Andie MacDowell, Chris O'Dowd, James Adomian, Juliet Rylance, Dree Hemingway

Family drama
Slow-burning

A sixty-something widow and her two adult sons navigate grief, family obligation, and the messy work of becoming themselves after their father's death. Andie MacDowell anchors a quietly observant film about the space between devastation and ordinary life—where most of us actually live. It's a film that knows grief doesn't resolve; it just teaches you how to carry it differently.

TMDb rating

2.8

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