Film

C'mon C'mon

Name: C'mon C'mon
Genre: Drama
Released: 2021
Cast: Joaquin Phoenix, Gaby Hoffmann, Woody Norman, Scoot McNairy, Molly Webster

Family drama

A black-and-white road film about an uncle and nephew learning each other across America. Joaquin Phoenix plays a radio producer reconnecting with his brother's son, a sharp-eyed kid who won't pretend to feel things he doesn't. It's tender without being sentimental—interested in how people actually talk, how silence matters, what you owe the people you love. For viewers who prize intimacy and observation over plot.

TMDb rating

3.6

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you love quiet road-and-family films where big feelings arrive sideways, through overheard conversations, tape recorders and small awkward kindnesses rather than speeches.

Skip it if you want a story that keeps driving forward; much of it is talk and wandering between cities, and its tenderness moves at the pace of an unhurried conversation.

What it asks of you: It runs about two hours in lingering, black-and-white stillness, asking you to sit with long silences and everyday exchanges until their weight quietly builds.

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