Film

A Christmas Tale

Name: A Christmas Tale
Genre: Comedy, Drama
Released: 2008
Cast: Catherine Deneuve, Jean-Paul Roussillon, Anne Consigny, Mathieu Amalric, Chiara Mastroianni

Family drama

Catherine Deneuve presides over a fractious French family Christmas where old wounds resurface and nobody quite forgives anyone. Arnaud Desplechin's film is mordantly funny and deeply sad in turns, sprawling and digressive in the manner of real family chaos. It's for people who recognise their own relatives in the mess.

TMDb rating

3.4

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you enjoy big, talky family portraits where affection and spite sit side by side, and where a sharp joke can land right after a moment of real ache.

Skip it if you want a tight plot with a clear throughline, since this one wanders through many characters and old grudges at a leisurely, sprawling pace over a long running time.

What it asks of you: It runs close to two and a half hours and rewards patience, asking you to keep track of a crowded household and to let its shifts between bickering and tenderness unfold without hurrying them.

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