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Blackbird

Other titles called Blackbird: the 2007 film, the 2014 film.

A terminally ill mother gathers her family at a country house for a final weekend. Tensions between her estranged daughters surface immediately, forcing uncomfortable truths into the open. It's intimate, quietly devastating, and anchored by Susan Sarandon's grace. For anyone who's navigated family fracture or mortality with honesty.

TMDb rating3.4

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you like family dramas where the bickering is precise and the silences do as much work as the arguments, and you don't mind sitting with grief that is never tidied up.

Skip it if you want momentum or a story that opens out beyond its setting; this is talky and largely confined to one house, with a heavy mood that rarely lifts.

What it asks of you: Ninety-eight minutes, unhurried and talky; the long pointed conversations need close attention, and the mood stays dark rather than lightening into relief.

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