Film

Poms

Name: Poms
Genre: Comedy, Drama
Released: 2019
Cast: Diane Keaton, Jacki Weaver, Celia Weston, Alisha Boe, Charlie Tahan

Buddy comedy
Light-hearted

A film about a group of seniors who form a cheerleading squad in their retirement community. It's a feel-good ensemble comedy with genuine warmth—not saccharine, genuinely interested in its characters as people with desires and disappointments. For anyone who loves seeing older women given space to be funny, fierce, and complicated, not just decorative.

TMDb rating

3.3

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you like gentle comedies about stubborn people finding unlikely friendship late in life, with Diane Keaton and Jacki Weaver doing the heavy lifting in a retirement community.

Skip it if you need your comedy sharp and fast, since this one is warm, unhurried and happy to let its jokes sit quietly in the corners.

What it asks of you: Ninety-one minutes, with a gentle rhythm that lingers on small domestic moments between set pieces, so it rewards patience more than attention.

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