Film

Here and Now

Name: Here and Now
Genre: Romance, Drama
Released: 2018
Cast: Sarah Jessica Parker, Simon Baker, Gus Birney, Jacqueline Bisset, Common

Family drama

A New York romance about a successful singer confronting life's big choices on the eve of a tour. It's a character-driven film that trades plot momentum for intimate conversations, asking what we're willing to sacrifice for our ambitions. Best for people who like their drama grounded in real relationships rather than manufactured crisis.

TMDb rating

2.7

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you like quiet, talky portraits of a woman taking stock, where the city and a tangle of old relationships do the heavy lifting more than plot does.

Skip it if you want sharp plotting or a fresh take on familiar emotional territory, since this one often feels loosely stitched together and sentimental at its edges.

What it asks of you: Ninety brisk minutes that spend long stretches on city streets and in tense conversations, letting silences sit and a face do the work before anyone speaks.

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