Film

The Souvenir

Name: The Souvenir
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 2019
Cast: Honor Swinton Byrne, Tom Burke, Tilda Swinton, Richard Ayoade, Ariane Labed

Joanna Hogg's semi-autobiographical drama follows a hesitant film student whose life is slowly reshaped by a magnetic, evasive older lover. Told in elliptical scenes and hushed rooms, it's less about plot than atmosphere — memory rendered as texture, feeling withheld until it isn't. Patient, painterly, quietly devastating; for anyone who likes their heartbreak understated and their filmmaking about filmmaking.

TMDb rating

6.0

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