Film

Pin Cushion

Name: Pin Cushion
Genre: Drama
Released: 2018
Cast: Joanna Scanlan, Lily Newmark, John Henshaw, Chanel Cresswell, Isy Suttie

Drama

Pin Cushion is a darkly comic British drama about a brittle, enmeshed mother-daughter relationship that fractures when they move to a new town. Iona finds a friend group while Lyn desperately mirrors her into adulthood. It's tender and uncomfortable, funny in ways that make you wince, and genuinely interested in how neediness becomes cruelty. Perfect for anyone who's survived adolescence with complicated family ties.

TMDb rating

3.2

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