Film

Never Let Me Go

Never Let Me Go is a hushed, heartbreaking British drama wearing science fiction as a faint disguise - three friends raised in a secluded boarding school slowly realise what their lives are actually for. It's restrained rather than dramatic, elegy rather than thriller, carried by aching performances and unbearable English politeness. For anyone wanting a quiet cry about mortality, love, and a life you never got to choose.

TMDb rating6.8

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