Film

The Remains of the Day

Name: The Remains of the Day
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 1993
Cast: Anthony Hopkins, Emma Thompson, James Fox, Christopher Reeve, Hugh Grant

A butler devotes his entire life to service so completely that he forgets to have one of his own. Set in a great English house between the wars, it's quiet, formal, and devastating in the way it lets you see everything Stevens refuses to say. Watch it for two of the finest performances in British cinema, and for a heartbreak that never raises its voice.

TMDb rating

7.4

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