Film

The Age of Innocence

Name: The Age of Innocence
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 1993
Cast: Daniel Day-Lewis, Michelle Pfeiffer, Winona Ryder, Alexis Smith, Geraldine Chaplin

Martin Scorsese's most unexpected film is also one of his most Scorsese: a Gilded Age tragedy where nobody throws a punch, yet the violence of judgment and unspoken rules cuts deeper than any turf war. Lush, meticulous, narrated with cool irony, it's about a man trapped by a world too polite to name what it's doing to him. For lovers of restraint that hurts.

TMDb rating

7.0

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