Film

It Ends with Us

Name: It Ends with Us
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 2024
Cast: Blake Lively, Justin Baldoni, Jenny Slate, Brandon Sklenar, Hasan Minhaj

A woman caught between her abusive husband and her first love must find her own strength to escape a cycle of violence. It Ends with Us is a relationship drama that doesn't flinch from the mechanics of abuse—the charm, the apologies, the hope that things will change. Colleen Hoover adaptation for people who recognize themselves in complicated situations.

TMDb rating

3.5

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