Film

Bed of Roses

Name: Bed of Roses
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 1996
Cast: Christian Slater, Mary Stuart Masterson, Pamela Adlon, Josh Brolin, Brian Tarantina

A 1996 romance about an uptight investment banker who receives flowers from a mysterious admirer—a former florist and recovering addict trying to rebuild his life. It's earnest and gentle, interested in whether two people with fundamentally different ways of moving through the world can actually meet. For anyone who likes their romance grounded and patient rather than swept away.

TMDb rating

3.0

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