Film

About a Boy

Name: About a Boy
Genre: Drama, Comedy, Romance
Released: 2002
Cast: Hugh Grant, Nicholas Hoult, Toni Collette, Rachel Weisz, Natalia Tena

Comedy

A smooth-talking bachelor fakes parenthood to seduce single mothers, then actually befriends the geeky twelve-year-old kid he invents. It's a rom-com with real emotional weight—funny without trying too hard, warm without getting schmaltzy. For anyone who's ever felt like an outsider or wondered if growing up means losing yourself entirely.

TMDb rating

3.3

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you like comedies about lonely people reluctantly letting other people in, where the sharp wit of the dialogue carries a genuinely tender friendship between an unlikely pair.

Skip it if you want a brisk, plot-driven romcom; this one is more interested in mood and character, and its sentimental streak will test patience for some viewers.

What it asks of you: about a hundred minutes, unhurried and wry rather than frantic, asking you to enjoy small observations and a lot of awkward silence rather than big set pieces.

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