Film

Big Daddy

Name: Big Daddy
Genre: Comedy, Drama
Released: 1999
Cast: Adam Sandler, Joey Lauren Adams, Jon Stewart, Cole Sprouse, Dylan Sprouse

Comedy

A commitment-phobic law school dropout becomes an accidental single father when he adopts a child to win back his ex-girlfriend. What starts as a scheme transforms into genuine parental love. It's *Home Alone* meets *Kramer vs. Kramer*—funny but unafraid to wreck you emotionally. Perfect for anyone who laughs at chaos and cries at children.

TMDb rating

3.2

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you enjoy Adam Sandler's loose, goofy man-child routine softened by a sweet streak, the kind of broad comedy where the sentimental beats land because the silliness never fully lets go.

Skip it if you find Sandler's shtick grating or want sharper, more grounded comedy; at 93 minutes it stays easygoing and predictable, and the sweetness can feel laid on thick.

What it asks of you: Not much beyond an evening: it runs about ninety-three minutes, moves at a light, unhurried clip, and wants you to laugh easily rather than concentrate.

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