Film

A Lot Like Love

Name: A Lot Like Love
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Romance
Released: 2005
Cast: Ashton Kutcher, Amanda Peet, Kathryn Hahn, Kal Penn, Ali Larter

A Lot Like Love follows two people who meet on a plane, decide they're wrong for each other, then spend seven years accidentally becoming essential to one another. It's a romantic comedy that earns its bittersweet moments, genuinely funny without being mean, and interested in how people actually change. For anyone who's ever wondered if timing matters more than compatibility.

TMDb rating

3.4

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