Film

A Boy Called Po

Name: A Boy Called Po
Genre: Fantasy, Drama
Released: 2016
Cast: Christopher Gorham, Julian Feder, Kaitlin Doubleday, Andrew Bowen, Sean Gunn

Family drama

A widowed father raising his autistic son navigates grief, parenting, and the edge of despair with tenderness and hard-won wisdom. Intimate and unflinching, it sidesteps sentimentality to find genuine moments of connection and acceptance. A quiet film for people who understand that love isn't always easy, and that struggling doesn't mean failing.

TMDb rating

3.5

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