Film

The Dilemma

Name: The Dilemma
Genre: Comedy, Drama
Released: 2011
Cast: Vince Vaughn, Kevin James, Winona Ryder, Jennifer Connelly, Queen Latifah

Drama

A buddy comedy about a man who discovers his best friend's wife might be cheating, then has to decide whether to tell him right before their biggest business pitch. It's a film caught between wanting to be a smart comedy about male friendship and a serious drama about betrayal, executed with uneven energy and an uncertain sense of what it actually thinks about any of it.

TMDb rating

2.7

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