Film

I Could Never Be Your Woman

Name: I Could Never Be Your Woman
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Romance
Released: 2007
Cast: Michelle Pfeiffer, Paul Rudd, Saoirse Ronan, Stacey Dash, Sarah Alexander

Romance

A romantic comedy about a 40-something Hollywood executive who falls for a much younger man while her teenage daughter navigates her own first love. It's a warm, slightly farcical film about timing, desire, and the complicated relationship between mothers and daughters. Aimed squarely at women who like their romance with humour and heart, not apology.

TMDb rating

2.9

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