Film

Something's Gotta Give

Name: Something's Gotta Give
Genre: Drama, Comedy, Romance
Released: 2003
Cast: Jack Nicholson, Diane Keaton, Keanu Reeves, Frances McDormand, Amanda Peet

Romantic comedy
Light-hearted

Nancy Meyers' sharp comedy about a successful playwright (Diane Keaton) who falls for the much-younger man she's supposed to disapprove of after he's stranded at her Hamptons house. Funny, romantic, and surprisingly tender about aging, desire, and the audacity of wanting more. A film that loves its characters and lets them be complicated.

TMDb rating

3.3

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you like grown-up romantic comedies where the banter has real bite and the characters are vain, funny and a little wrong about their own lives.

Skip it if you want a brisk, plotted film, since this one lingers over conversations, kitchen-table wit and well-dressed indecision, and at 128 minutes it takes its time getting anywhere.

What it asks of you: It asks for two unhurried hours of talk, where a joke can land scenes late and mood shifts on a glance rather than a plot point.

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