Film

That's Life!

Name: That's Life!
Genre: Comedy, Drama
Released: 1986
Cast: Jack Lemmon, Julie Andrews, Sally Kellerman, Robert Loggia, Jennifer Edwards

Drama

Jack Lemmon stars as a wealthy architect spiralling into existential dread as he approaches sixty, while Julie Andrews plays his patient wife navigating his crisis. It's a heartfelt comedy-drama about aging, mortality, and marriage that swings between laugh-out-loud moments and genuine tenderness. Perfect for anyone who's felt time's weight or lived through a partner's meltdown.

TMDb rating

2.9

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