Film

She's Having a Baby

Name: She's Having a Baby
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Romance
Released: 1988
Cast: Kevin Bacon, Elizabeth McGovern, Alec Baldwin, William Windom, Holland Taylor

Drama

A young married couple navigate the early years of marriage while their families push them toward parenthood. John Hughes directs this uneven but genuinely felt comedy-drama about the gap between what people expect of you and what you actually want. It's warm and awkward by turns, anchored by Bacon and McGovern's real chemistry. For anyone who's felt the weight of others' expectations on their relationship.

TMDb rating

3.0

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