Film

The Sea Change

Name: The Sea Change
Genre: Romance, Comedy
Released: 1998
Cast: Maryam D'Abo, Sean Chapman, Ray Winstone, Andrée Bernard, Dolly Wells

Romantic comedy
Comedy
Light-hearted

A 1998 romantic comedy where a arrogant businessman stranded at a Spanish airport gets an unlikely personality overhaul from a no-nonsense stranger. Warm, character-driven, and gently funny, it trades cynicism for genuine transformation. For anyone who believes people can actually change, and who likes their romance earned rather than assumed.

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