Film

The Goodbye Girl

Name: The Goodbye Girl
Genre: Comedy, Drama, Romance
Released: 1977
Cast: Richard Dreyfuss, Marsha Mason, Quinn Cummings, Paul Benedict, Barbara Rhoades

Romantic comedy

A 1977 romantic comedy about an unemployed dancer and her daughter who share an apartment with a struggling actor. It's warm, funny, and genuinely touching—the kind of film that lets you believe in both love and real people trying to figure things out. For anyone who likes character-driven stories where the stakes feel personal, not cosmic.

TMDb rating

3.5

Should you watch it?

Watch it if you like sharp, talky comedy where bickering New York characters slowly reveal their soft spots, and you enjoy a romance that takes its time getting warm.

Skip it if you need brisk plotting or a steady stream of gags, since this is a talky, character-led film that lingers in its scenes and has a bittersweet undertow.

What it asks of you: Long stretches of dialogue and cramped, awkward rooms fill just under two hours, and feeling builds at its own unhurried pace, so settle in early.

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Chapter Two1979

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The Poseidon Adventure1972

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The Heartbreak Kid1972

Mike Nichols' dark comedy about a man abandoning his new bride for another woman. It's cynical about love in ways that make *The Goodbye Girl*'s optimism feel earned, not naive.

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Alice Doesn't Live Here Anymore1974

Scorsese's character study of a widow trying to rebuild her life and career after her husband dies. It has humor, tenderness, and real respect for a woman figuring out who she is.

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Diner1982

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Barry Levinson's ensemble comedy-drama about a group of men in Baltimore navigating relationships, ambition, and what it means to grow up. It has the same warmth, humor, and faith in ordinary people that *The Goodbye Girl* possesses.

But It's male-centered and the women are somewhat peripheral—a real limitation. The structure is loose and meandering; some find it frustratingly plotless.