Film

Brighton Beach Memoirs

Name: Brighton Beach Memoirs
Genre: Comedy
Released: 1986
Cast: Jonathan Silverman, Blythe Danner, Stacey Glick, Lisa Waltz, Judith Ivey

Coming-of-age

A tender, funny memoir of adolescence in 1930s Brooklyn: a teenage boy navigating puberty, cramped family life, and first crushes in a crowded Jewish household. It's warm without being saccharine, honest about desire and embarrassment, and filled with the specific texture of a time and place. For anyone who's felt too much and known too little.

TMDb rating

3.3

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