Film

The Best Years of Our Lives

Name: The Best Years of Our Lives
Genre: Drama, Romance, War
Released: 1946
Cast: Dana Andrews, Fredric March, Harold Russell, Teresa Wright, Myrna Loy

A three-hour, Oscar-sweeping 1946 drama following three servicemen back to the same American town, asking what victory actually costs once the parades stop. William Wyler shoots with unshowy clarity — deep focus, long takes, no swelling triumph — as an airman, a sergeant and a disabled sailor try to fit back into jobs, marriages and a country that has moved on without them.

TMDb rating

7.7

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