Film

Racing with the Moon

Name: Racing with the Moon
Genre: Drama, Romance
Released: 1984
Cast: Sean Penn, Nicolas Cage, Elizabeth McGovern, John Karlen, Rutanya Alda

Drama

A bittersweet 1984 romance set in a small California coastal town on the eve of World War II. Two working-class friends—one pursuing a girl he thinks is rich, one spiralling into trouble—navigate love, loyalty, and the shadow of deployment. It's tender and funny, occasionally melancholy, the kind of film that catches you off guard with genuine feeling.

TMDb rating

3.2

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